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“My Daughter Won’t Be A Single Mother Like Me”- Waje

Award winning music star, born Aituaje Iruobe, popularly known as Waje has opened up on her misgivings in life as a single mother, stressing that her daughter will not make the same mistakes she made by being put in the family way outside wedlock.

In a chat with Genevieve magazine, the mother of one, said, “I’m a mother but I know where to draw the line.

“It is because I don’t want her to make the same mistakes I made. I feel like some of the decisions I made was because I was raised differently.

“Our parents taught us what they knew as the truth, but what you know as the truth might not be the truth. Another thing is that parents do not tell their children why certain behaviours should be avoided.

“For example, parents say, “don’t drink because I said so” not, “don’t drink because it is bad for your health”; but I’m learning that for the children of this age, you have to tell them all the reasons why they should not do certain things.

“While my daughter was growing up, I took up the reward method; you do good, you get good. There was a consequence for every action.”

Waje, whose daughter recently turned 17 continued, “There were many times I really prayed that The One will quicken his steps to make things easier. It did get too much when it is time to pay rent, school fees, and other miscellaneous expenses.

“I had my own share of pillow cries and made sure she doesn’t see it. Sometimes she could come asking, “Why didn’t you and my Dad stay together?” And, when I first moved to Lagos, I couldn’t afford to have my daughter with me because I didn’t have a house; I was squatting with someone. There was a time I saw her like twice a year.

“There were times she cried, mummy I want to come and live with you, but I couldn’t afford it till 2011. Yet looking at my daughter, I will be honest that she is a blessing.

“And the blessing outweighs the challenges. I have learnt to be patient, more accommodating and to pay attention to details as a mom. I have also learnt to map out my priorities, because there are some things I simply cannot do as a mom,” she added, noting that her baby-daddy wasn’t ready at the time she took in.”

According to her, “I was young. He was young. Our relationship now is very cordial. We respect each other.

“He has not always been a part of my daughter’s life until recently.

“He met her last year. When she was quite young he showed interest but my fear was that he won’t be consistent. I didn’t want a situation where he would come in this year and leave the next.

“So I had to wait till I was sure that he would be there”….

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  1. koleex says


  2. Mosabic says

    Exactly the truth

  3. renewed says

    Na ugo find husband for her ba?

    1. Pelumi says

      no nw,but she will look bfre she leap

  4. abbey says

    That’s better

  5. Abu says

    Pray hard

    1. Ade says

      same thing at naijaextra

  6. Deji says

    Just pray for the best

  7. olan says

    Allah knows best

  8. Pelumi says

    I pray she won’t make d same mistakes u made

    1. lad says


  9. BEN10 says

    The daughter is cute and sweet

    1. Ade says

      yu dey flirt

  10. blackbones says


  11. mrsuced says


  12. TRHYME says

    mak she cum marry me

  13. Niyola jamiat says

    Ur wrong step does nt imply dat ur daughter ll also do it dat is if right measures r taken her #prayer is d key

  14. Sammie says

    out of weed luck is not good…

  15. Sammie says


  16. amazing says

    I pray o..

  17. TRHYME says

    bt seriously ur daughter is nt a celeb lik u….nd ur fate r diff

  18. Sharks says

    We pray so

  19. lad says

    a very good one

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